My bridesmaids. Oh, how I love these girls.
Not only are they my closest friends, but they were paramount in helping me pull off the wedding of my dreams. They listened to my crazy DIY ideas and contributed to making them a reality. They planned the ultimate bridal shower and bachelorette weekend. They stayed up late with me the night before the wedding to help me figure out the seating chart. They talked me off the ledge minutes before the ceremony when I thought I would pass out from nerves. And to top it off, my maid of honor gave the most beautiful, heartfelt speech at our reception. (Originally I had six bridesmaids, but my good friend Sarah got the stomach flu on the morning of my wedding and sadly wasn’t able to attend).
For their bouquets, I requested something earthy and organic. No tight rose bundles. Nothing too formal or expected. Just something that would complement my own oversized, freeform bouquet. And I could not have been happier with the results! My floral stylist nailed it.
When it came down to their outfits, I pretty much let them have free reign. Being a part of a wedding is very expensive, so I wanted to make sure that each girl was able to shop within her own budget to find a look that fit her own personal style. (And who am I to insist upon overpriced dresses when I only spent $40 on my own dress?) The only direction I provided was the color palette (aqua colored dresses and red / pink / orange / yellow accessories). I love how all six of them were able to find a look that completely embodied their own unique personalities, while still looking like a unified group.
If I can give any advice to future brides, it’s this: choose bridesmaids you can count on!
When I first asked my girls to be in the wedding right after getting engaged, 50% of them lived in different states…! But even with distance as an obstacle, I never once had to worry about any of them not coming through. All six girls were an absolute dream and it made my job as the boss lady a cinch ;)
Photos by Katie Pritchard Photography.
Yesterday was one of those days that reaffirmed I am meant for this unconventional freelance lifestyle.
My good friends Jaymee + Janelle joined me in the Arts District of downtown LA for an awesome photography workshop led by Jessie Webster (who lives in THIS amazing Silver Lake house!) and Kim Genevieve. It was a Q+A format session, which quite honestly, is my favorite kind of all. I know how cameras work…what I REALLY love learning about is how amazing photographers MAKE them work, you know? So inspiring.
Once the workshop wrapped up, Jaymee, Janelle, and I headed over to Poketo (heaven) and then had coffee+ flatbread at Eat Drink Americano. (I also may or may not have had a lovely conversation with a random passerby regarding the way he made iced coffee whilst in prison. No big.)
It was so nice to be able to go on a downtown adventure with my best gals on a random Monday afternoon. The three of us are pretty much spread out in opposite directions across Los Angeles, but when events like this pop up, no amount of rush hour traffic will keep us apart.
Working from home has a way of turning me into a bit of a hermit. With the exception of daily gym classes and errands punctuating my work day, it’s just me, my pups, and my computer all day long. Which – to be honest – is nothing short of heaven for this introvert. But these past few weeks, I’ve had the pleasure of leaving the house and chatting with some amazing creative freelancers who have given me invaluable insight and reassurance about this unconventional way of life.
I have enjoyed many great conversations while working alongside Amy at her kitchen table. I talked taxes, yoga, and Photoshop tricks with Katie over coffee. I exchange daily marathon texts about biz matters and time management with my good friend Jaymee. And just yesterday, I spent several hours at Urth Caffe with my wedding photographer (whom I found on Pinterest, of all places!) and now friend, Katie, chatting about marriage, wedding blogs, and not quite fitting the art school mold. Even though our career paths may overlap slightly, I am THRILLED that we can have an open, honest dialogue about what it’s really like to be your own boss (the consensus: it’s the best). There really needs to be more of this, don’t you think?
SoCal creatives, we should totally meet up for coffee. I want to hear about your life.
As someone who has lived far away from family + friends, I can attest to how wonderful it is to receive a care package in the mail. My mom used to send me the best care packages filled with magazines, my favorite candy, and the occasional Starbucks gift card (thanks Mom!) to make the distance between California + Utah feel a little bit shorter. And even though I am now back in California, I still have several friends that live out of state, so I am always looking for opportunities to send a little happy mail their way.
The key to care packages is that they don’t have to cost a lot; it truly is the thought behind the gesture that counts! In fact, one of my favorite things to do is to “shop” my own supplies. I have waaaay more stamps, pencils, twine, washi tape, and envelopes than I’ll ever know what to do with, so I pass them along to someone who can put them to good use! And of course, with all these fun supplies comes the opportunity to create fun packaging. I especially love adding descriptions to my items (i.e. “15 yards”) with Martha Stewart’s Crafts Your Own Stamp Set.
There are no rules and you don’t even need to send the package to a distant location. It might be fun just to drop a box off on a good friend’s doorstep to make their homecoming a little bit sweeter. Happy mail for the win!
Sundance was one of the first places John and I discovered upon our move to Utah in 2010 and it completely bowled us over. In fact, it STILL bowls me over every time I visit. I spent this past weekend in Utah and on Sunday, my good friend Sarah + her husband Mike took me up to Sundance for an amazing brunch at The Foudry Grill.
After breakfast, we spent a little time shopping (I’ll take one of everything, please!) and wandering around the resort. Just being amidst the trees + the mountains felt so refreshing. One of these days, I want to rent out one of the cabins (or yurts!) and wake up and breathe in that crisp alpine air with a hot cup of coffee in hand. Heaven.
From there, we jumped back in the car and went for a scenic drive through the Alpine Loop, stopping along the way for photos. This time of year is an absolute dream in Utah. The temperature is no longer too cold and not yet too hot and it feels amazing. I’m so glad my trip happened to coincide with the perfect weather!
If ever you get the opportunity to visit Utah, I highly recommend stopping by Sundance. Not only does the resort have so much to offer (including Full Moon lift rides!), but the idyllic drive through Provo Canyon to get there is worth the trip all on it’s own!
Despite being in five different states, three different time zones and unpredictable levels of Internet cooperation (Jamie – we’re coming for you!), my friends and I were able to hang out on Wednesday night + it was the greatest thing ever.
Okay, so maybe not “hang out” in the same way we do when we take over Starbucks or stand in Jaymee’s parents’ kitchen until 2am or gather together for our annual holiday parties, but still, so good. Amazing actually. I mean, can you believe that with a few clicks, you can SEE + HEAR + TALK TO someone thousands of miles away? Or better yet, six different people all at the same time?! I can’t even…
Nothing better than good friends, good conversations + ridiculously amazing technology.
Over the holiday season, I was lucky enough to have almost all of my friends in town for several weeks. This meant daily trips to Starbucks to “get work done” which translates to “rearrange the tables + chairs in the store to accomodate everyone and talk loudly for hours on end.” (The good people at the ‘Bucks totally love us.) Since it’s so rare to actually have my friends nearby for an extended period of time, I knew I had to seize the opportunity to pop the question to my bridesmaids in person. And let me tell you, I struggled to figure out what I wanted to do! The pressure was on, to say the least.
After many failed mock-ups (I was dead-serious about this task), I finally decided that simple was best.
Using my Cameo, I die-cut each of the cards and then adhered them to a sheet of gold cardstock along with a handwritten message on the back. From there, I wrapped each card in hot pink tissue paper and tucked them into kraft bags embellished with washi tape, glitter tape, and a Thicker in each girl’s first initial. And guess what? It totally worked! Despite the fact that four out of six girls currently live out of state, they all agreed to join me on this journey! I couldn’t be more thrilled.